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Looking for the Next Zuckerberg

Last week at AT&T in Atlanta, I had the honor of bringing The Hunt to the Brand Innovator’s conference “Marketing to Millennials” as a keynote speaker. Millennials are Generation Y – and the Y stands for “WHY”… These are a generation of people with incredible buying power who respect transparency and relationships. They strive to be indefinable but they might just be the biggest group of Above & Clear hunters this world has ever seen.

I say that because a Desired Outcome is key for this group. They want to work, but on their own terms. They want to be defined by their very lack of description. And I’m fairly sure not one of them wants to wear the label of “hunter” but that’s exactly what they are. Unconventional, untethered and free, Millennials are reimagining this world and shaping their future based on what they know they don’t want.

Here are the Pillars of The Hunt, redefined for the Millennial Generation:

Consciousness: Millennials know how to be present, in the moment, alive and aware. They rise above the noise and clutter of their ego and are able to predict developments and stay on track.

Authenticity: In this world of social media, authenticity strikes hard and fast with Millennials. Do not hide behind a Facebook or Twitter handle and expect to get away with it. Authenticity and transparency go hand-in-hand and millenials want to know about and then build a relationship with your brand in order to trust it.

Leverage: Millenials leverage their minds and power at every opportunity. They know their value and use it to define everything from their work hours and location to their benefit package.

Real-Time Execution: If there is anyone who understands real-time, it’s Millennials. They were raised in a world of reality TV and Twitter as a source of news before it gets to CNN or (gasp!) traditional news channels. They know how to execute in real time, targeting on-going decisions to that ever-present DO.

Flow: The gold medal, the true prize. Everything this generation does it to reach a state of Flow, where the targets line up and come to them directly. They see the world clearly, own their Desired Outcomes and are committed to doing what it takes to claim them. They align their actions and decisions with their authentic motivations building on their relationship and creating their own Hunt.

I’m was born a decade too late to be a Millennial, but I embody so many of their truths: doing what I love, so work is my joy; balancing life with work, so I get to enjoy my life; knowing that the trail I leave behind is as important as the one in front of me. Millennials are the new badass hunters and I cannot wait to see the trophies they start bringing home. Who will be the next Mark Zuckerberg?

Five Questions with David Farbman & Michael Waddell, Bone Collector

I love sharing The Hunt everywhere I go, with everyone I meet. I thought I would ask the hunters I admire to share what success means to them so we can all learn from the amazing people I am fortunate to know. In this space, you will hear from politicians, outdoors enthusiasts, and entrepreneurs – each of whom is hunting down what means the most to them.

First off is my man Michael Waddell – the truest of the true, one of the most authentic people I know. Michael IS that guy you see on TV, whether in the field, on screen or with his friends and family, he has the kind of unwavering assurance that he is in the right place doing exactly what he is meant to do. That translates into confidence that is enviable and a mindset that is always above & clear, set on his targets and ready to go. He is also a big kid, which is probably why we get along so well. So here’s my buddy Michael, answering my five questions:

  • What does success mean to you? Succeeding means a lot to me, and capability plays a big role. Sometimes succeeding means getting better at something I’m not good at. Knowing who you are and knowing your assets is important. I want to be the best I can be at what I do and if I know I gave it my all, it’s always easier to sleep at night and in this I find success. Finding something you’re a natural at and passionate about has helped me.
  • How do you set goals? I set my goals on making a difference. I’ve never been financially driven, but when go all in and attack something with all my ability and it’s done right, the financial rewards seem to come naturally. One goal I’ve always tried to set is to help others find their dreams or goals. It’s always seemed that by helping others do what they dream of doing, good things come back around, and it’s very rewarding. Really, I’ve just always kept my goals simple and set them by evaluating our team and myself. If that’s done right, goals are easier to meet because none of them are set as unreachable.
  • What was your breakout moment? My breakout moment was hosting a TV show called “Realtree Roadtrips.” It came about by complete surprise, because I had never had a goal of being a TV host or personality. I simply wanted to work in the hunting industry and make a difference for Realtree in any way I could. By doing that I learned a lot about business, people, structure and in the end, I found myself. When it came time to be on TV, I truly just hosted that show as who I really was…I had no intention of running a popularity contest. I hunted they way I hunted growing up and just simply was so stoked to travel and do the things I had only dreamed about that all the emotion was real and unrehearsed. This show led to my career growth and helped me to better understand how to help others go down the same path Realtree had afforded me.
  • Who was your greatest influence? My greatest influence is my family I grew up around in Booger Bottom, Georgia: my Daddy and Mamma… the whole culture I grew up with. I learned to be proud of my humble country raising, who I was and where I was from. Being raised the way I was influences me like crazy to this day. I learned how to work hard and that nothing came free. You had to go get it! Being raised tough made me realize I couldn’t become a victim and succeed. If you were knocked down, you got up and went twice as hard! I’m so thankful for this. Folks fed with a silver spoon and living too soft can get a false outlook on the world and think life is easy. I have always known this wasn’t the case. It’s tough! But very rewarding if you don’t mind putting some calluses on your hands!
  • How do you influence others? I just treat people the way I want to be treated. I want to influence people by letting them know to just be yourself and lose those insecurities that can make life miserable. Find what the good Lord has gifted you with and use it! Don’t try to be something you’re not. If I can make it from where I came from, anyone can. Oh, and the big thing I want people to know is to stay humble! No one likes an arrogant jerk and eventually no matter how talented you are at anything being too conceited will lead to a downfall! There’s a big difference between confidence and arrogance: just be confident and work hard.

 

 

Prep Work

Be prepared. It’s the motto of the Boy Scouts of America and some of the best advice in the world. Robert Baden-Powell, founder of the Boys Scouts, did not merely mean to be prepared for emergency, but be ready in mind and spirit for struggle and meet with a strong heart any challenge that arises. To be prepared for life – to live happily and without regret, knowing you have done your best.

Preparation is key for any meeting, pitch or interview. When I deliver a keynote speech, I make it a priority to know who the important players are in the company or organization, as well as familiarizing myself with the goals and pain points they are seeking to resolve. I recently spoke at North American Bancard’s international sales conference at the Motor City Casino.   The vendors needed to be fired up to sell new products, while being kept informed on key changes to technology, as well as being reassured that they are leveraging the power of NABancard across the globe. I dug in and armed myself with all the information; and it paid off in the Q&A when questions were asked that I could not have otherwise answered.

Preparation is also a necessary tool for guarding your time. By doing the prep work necessary you can make a quick, clean kill of the target you are after – the deal, the promotion, the new budget, the new job. Being prepared means that you position yourself to be in the right places at the right time and can leverage every opportunity.

Proper preparation gives you:

Confidence. When you walk into any situation knowing you have done the legwork, it’s like wearing your finest suit and knowing you look your best. And confidence can fill you up with the unknown “it” that people have a hard time resisting.

Leverage. When you are prepared and armed with your Desired Outcome as well as the needs of your target you can leverage that knowledge to anticipate next moves.

Opportunity. When you combine confidence and leverage, you are putting yourself in the position for opportunity to find you. The elements for success are in your territory thanks to your experience, observation and preparation.

Freedom. The simple act of preparation will unchain you from your inner Judge – the voice that preys on your fear. You free to focus on your plan and your target.

Do not leave the prep work to the last minute. Take some advice from Robert Baden-Powell and David Farbman, and get prepared NOW so you can live happily and without regret, knowing you have done your best.

Five things every hunter does that you need to start doing today

I can’t wait for opening day, seeing hard frost as it melts or the dew on the ground, hearing the first shots ring out. When hunters take to the fields next Saturday for opening day, you can be sure they are pumped up and ready to hunt. Every hunter should follow five steps to ensure they get the shot at the trophy they seek. When you apply these five things to the target in your own life, you will hit more of your bulls-eyes!

  • Study your prey. I study the deer herd up north year-round. I watch the bucks mature, make notes on their trails, where they eat, where they live. I pay attention to the details of their lives. If you are targeting a new job, a new love interest or a long-term goal, study that business, that person, or how others have reached their goals. These details will contribute immeasurably to your success.
  • Narrow your scope and set your desired outcome. Trophy hunters never walk into a field guns a-blazing. We wait and choose and negotiate for the deer we want. You should to do the same. Once you set your desired outcome, you can tailor everything toward hitting your target.
  • Gather your gear. Most hunters have unique and personal rituals which can border on the superstitious. For example, I wear the same hand warmer/muffo, bring along the same number of sandwiches, and have even found the perfect water cup that makes no noise when I drink. What gear is important to hit your target? Lucky pens, an amazing resume, whatever makes you feel powerful and secure, pack it up and be ready to go.
  •  Get in the field. I can visualize taking down that buck all I want, but when it comes down to it, I have to be in the moment and ready when the time comes. Get out there, visit the place you want to work, check out the places you’d like to share with someone special, hit the gym. Very little happens at home, sitting on the couch. What are you waiting for?
  • Take your shot when it is time. You’ve prepared, you’ve studied, and you have invested your heart and your head in this moment. Aim carefully; be confident and go for it. In this heart-pounding, exhilarating moment, you feel so fully alive; you won’t want to wait before starting all over again.

You don’t need to wait for November 15; your hunt for success starts now.

Costumes and Camouflage

When I was a kid, Halloween was a day. Just one day wearing costumes, running like demons through the neighborhood and staying out after dark. I would put on the camouflage and hunted for the house with the best treats.   As an adult, I love an opportunity to slap on a costume and a fake tattoo and celebrate the Halloween “season” with my sons.  Trips to the Detroit Zoo’s Zoo Boo, getting lost in corn mazes, my family and I hit “costume required” events as often as possible in October.

Here’s the thing, I know people who wear costumes every day. They put on a suit like a coat of armor, burying their true self deep under layers of worsted wool and tailored shirts and silk ties. They wrap themselves in layers of camouflage designed to distract and draw people away from who they truly are.

We all know these people, trapped by fear and convention into playing a game of pretend. The ones who think, “if the world knew who I am, they would never accept me.” Imagine the stress of living in a constant state of pretending. It’s fun for a while, but eventually, we are all just human beings with quirks and charm, moments of brilliance and brutality, hearts beating and thoughts racing, looking for the key to life. And I promise you, being yourself will unlock doors in unexpected places. It’s like having a master key to your own life.

Every day of my life I do my best to be myself. Jeans and t-shirt, suit and tie, fake tattoo and pirate hat, I am ME. I was speaking at an event recently when a man in the audience said, “what do you do when being who you are causes people to immediately stop listening to what you say?”   I say, acknowledge it. Say, “this is who I am and my authenticity is the key to my success.”

Enjoy your Halloween. Dress up and have fun. But leave the costumes for Halloween and the camouflage for hunting. And never underestimate the power of being you.

5 tips for getting what you want out of life

 

Every day, I do one thing to make my life better, bigger, brighter than it was the day before.  Some things take planning and others are spur of the moment ideas that take off in unexpected ways.  Some days I turn left instead of right and see how that road might take me home.  Other days, I take a walk around the office building and see how nature is painting new colors on the trees and making a brighter day of her own.

One thing I know is you can’t expect your life to change all on its own.  No one meets the love of their life sitting on the sofa watching TV, or spots the buck of a lifetime from behind their desk.  A better, bigger life is waiting for you if you follow my tips for getting what you want!

1)   Be authentic.  Take a long solid look at yourself and decide to love you.   The camouflage and expectations of others have no place in determining who you are.  You make the choice to embrace yourself.  Be the best at being you.

2)   State your desired outcome.  Write it down on a piece of paper and put it in your wallet.  Or make a note on your cell phone.  Look at it often.  Words have incredible power.  Say, “I am…” or “I want…” Be specific.  Add details as they come to you.   Prioritize your DO.  If you want to lose ten pounds, make those ten pounds the target in your mind and do not deviate from your goal.  Eyes on the prize!

3)   Put yourself out there.  You will not lose ten pounds watching The Biggest Loser.  You will lose ten pounds if you exercise while watching The Biggest Loser.  You are the biggest part of any equation when it comes to hitting your targets.

4)   Leverage.  Leverage your relationships, your knowledge and your skills.  Continuing with the weight loss example, find a friend who wants to lose weight too, that will keep you both in check.  Maybe you are a great shopper, but not a great cook.   Leverage that skill to someone who hates to shop but loves to cook.  Leverage is about recognizing opportunity and making connections.

5)   Take risks.  Get outside your comfort zone.  Leave fear in the dust and do those things you’ve always wanted to do.  And life will come to you.

At the end of each day, I like to play back the day in my mind, acknowledge the low points but focus on the high points.  My desired outcome is to live my life to it’s fullest and know that I got the best each day had to offer.  I never want to go to sleep thinking, “well, I tried” but thinking “Wow.  I lived this one.”  Hunters, get out there and live!  The Hunt waits for no one.