Last week, my two older boys and I went to camp. Our daily talks at dinner heading into that weekend were about the cabin, the woods, sleeping bags and s’mores. Now, being a big outdoorsman/hunter/sportsman, you might think I’m the ultimate camper. Sorry to disappoint you, but, well…no. There is a huge difference between camping on the ledge of a mountain to chase big game and sleeping in a cold cabin on a three-inch mattress. One’s a hunt and the other, well, is a (literal) pain in the neck.
I was a bit nervous about the camping weekend and found my anxiety level rising. I didn’t know many people, how my kids would react, and I was unfamiliar with the location. As a kid, I couldn’t stand summer camp, and many of those memories were clouding my mind. I was working against my past, and my thoughts were going to less-than-optimal places. Just days before the camp, I decided enough was enough and to let go of the past and create a new exciting reality filled with anticipation, not anxiety. As I tell all of you, I told myself: create a DO, set your target. Here is what I came up with:
- Be in the moment with my boys because these times will pass all too soon
- Visualize the amazing time we will have
- Be a leader to my sons and show them the way to adventure
- Cherish the opportunity to love life and new experiences
I’ve looked back and found many moments in my career when I had the same apprehensions: when something is foreign or triggers a bad memory. In those times, having a Desired Outcome to fall back on keep you moving forward. It starts with a vision and a target so you can just stay in the hunt and enjoy it.
The next time you face a challenge remind yourself that only you have the power to change your perception and create a great experience. Every moment is an opportunity for growth and a positive outlook puts you on the right trail to hunt down the life you want.
