We are social animals, and words are our toys. We say or write (or text, let’s be real) all types of things that, in turn, create feelings of love or frustration or anger in the recipient. Words have great power and are often wielded without much consideration for the damage they can do, whether it is creating hope where there is none or slicing deep, creating a wound that festers.
I hope by now you have all taken my communication mantra to heart: the meaning of communication is the message received. I want to give you a new skill to add to your communication toolbox. It is another go-to mantra passed on to me in many forms, but here it is in a nutshell: People are What They Do. This applies in business, in parenting, in marriage.
If you find yourself confused about a message left unanswered or an unexpected response, do not create excuses. Yes, things get held up all the time, but if someone wants to talk to you, engage your business or go on a date, they will find a way to make it happen. Actions speak louder than words. People are what they do.
Here are a few words of advice from one hunter to another:
Only raise your weapon if you are going to shoot. If you say you are going to do something, do it. Don’t say “I’ll call you” if you have no intention of following through on it.
If you are putting on your camo, you might as well go hunting. People lose confidence at the last minute. So if you are suited up and ready to go, that is the time to get fired up!
Keep track of your arrows. If you even think you accidentally wound an animal in the field, you show compassion and track it down to minimize any suffering or ensure its safety. This applies to communication as well. If you think you may have misfired an email or are hearing alarm bells in your head after a conversation, reach out for clarity.
So often, we get caught up with the judge, spinning stories in our mind about whys and whens without considering facts. Now, more than ever, hunters, we need to stay above and clear. Be a scout, lead with strength and take down your targets!
